reserve your date

Old Lystra Inn exudes Southern charm paired with an elegant, modern flare. 

While the high-end, completely renovated farmhouse design is undeniably charming, and the garden-like ceremony spaces are breathtaking, Old Lystra is best known for exceptional hospitality! Here at Old Lystra, Tony and Beth believe in providing every couple with a personalized, stress-free experience. We think that making sure the details are taken care of and being authentic and kind should go hand-in-hand. Our couples rest easy knowing they will be treated like family. 

If you're looking for a one-of-a-kind, stress-free experience, you've come to the right place. Old Lystra Inn includes an expansive list of services and amenities with no hidden fees or extra charges of any kind. 

A Chapel Hil, NC  Wedding Venue

Vintage Charm,

UNPARALLELED LUXURY

At Old Lystra Inn, we pride ourselves on creating a truly personalized and exceptional wedding experience, where every detail is thoughtfully curated to make your day truly magical.

  • Use of the gorgeous 1890’s farmhouse to gather & prepare with your closest friends and family members before the ceremony
  • Use of the property pre-ceremony for bridal and/or engagement photos 
  • Use of the property for ceremony rehearsal at an arranged time the week of your wedding 
  • Set Up and Breakdown of all tables and chairs
  • 22 round 60-inch tables for up to 176 guests 
  • 174 white resin folding chairs for ceremony 
  • 176 cross-back oak chairs for reception 
  • Additional tables for sweetheart seating, cake, buffet, etc.
  • Use of 40x80 foot reception tent with power, draping & crystal chandeliers
  • 16x20 dance floor
  • On-site, attendant-led parking 
  • Hair and makeup studio for pre-ceremony primping 
  • Separate three-room “getting ready” suite for groom, including flat screen TV
  • Separate Bridal Suite area for bridal party to dress and relax
  • Cocktail hour lawn games including corn hole and bocce ball
  • Fire pit with attendant and comfy Adirondack chairs 
  • Venue hosts present throughout the day to answer venue-specific questions and keep things tidy
  • Complete choice of vendors so that you may customize your wedding your way (we are happy to make recommendations!) 

meticulously crafted for unforgettable moments

we celebrate love

Enjoy the following amenities

BOOK A TOUR

VIEW NEXT

Drop us a line to inquire about pricing or scheduling a tour!  

Connect

VIEW NEXT

Come tour the Inn and chat with Tony & Beth to see if Old Lystra is the perfect spot for your big day!

Vist

VIEW NEXT

Sign our no-gotchas contract and pay your first half - we’re on the way to making magic!

Book

VIEW NEXT

Email anytime, check out our FAQs and attend your 30 day pre-wedding planning session - we’ve got your back the entire way!

Communicate

Please inquire here for current pricing

Please inquire about available dates using our contact form.

Our total guest limit is 178 including the couple, the bridal party and all guests. Note: children count as guests if they are waking and require a seat of their own.  

Tours must be booked in order to visit so that we can give you our full attention. To schedule your visit, please click here. Tony and Beth are excited to meet you, show you our gorgeous venue and learn all about your love story!

Old Lystra Inn is a boutique bed and breakfast and can accommodate up to four guests in two queen suites for an additional fee. Discuss your interest in onsite accommodation no less than 30 days prior to your event with Tony or Beth.

A $500 “Save-the-Date” is collected at the time of booking. This also serves as your security deposit and is returned to you within three weeks of your wedding date. After the couple has had 3 days to review the contract, a 50% non-refundable installment is due. 120 days prior to the event, the final 50% is due. This final installment is also non-refundable.

All posing will be no-touch and we ask that you limit group photos to no more than ten people at a time. Should catering allow, we would also prefer a vendor meal over being a part of the buffet line. 

Old Lystra strives for total transparency in our pricing structure. We try to include everything we own that a couple needs for their event. We do not own linens for our banquet tables or tableware (dishes, glassware and flatware), so these will need to be rented or purchased by the couple. Additionally, couples are required to hire both a day-of coordinator and licensed and insured bartender if any alcohol is to be served to guests. Those wishing to serve spirited liquor must also purchase an ABC permit for $50. Finally, couples must purchase an event liability policy to protect themselves in the event of any personal or guest injury related to the event.  

No. There are no refunds of installments once they are paid as your date has been withheld from other couples. The $500 save-the-date/security deposit is 100% refundable provided no damage occurs to the property during your event and will be returned to you approximately 3 weeks after your event.

ABSOLUTELY! We want you to have the flexibility to work with the vendors that best fit your stylistic and budgetary needs. We love to recommend local event professionals, so please ask if you would like a referral for a particular vendor need. To ensure the success of your event, we do ask that you submit a complete vendor list for your event 30 days prior to your event date. Additionally, all caterers and bartenders MUST be approved prior to hire. Unfortunately, we have worked with a few vendors who do not reflect the level of professionalism that you would want on your wedding day and we would let you know should you make an unwise choice.


love in motion

View more

- Bryce

"Thanks to the Old Lystra Inn our wedding day was perfect. The venue is so beautiful and perfect. Beth and Tony take meticulous care of the property, are perfect hosts, and make everything seamless. We could not have imagined a more perfect setting for our wedding. I would give them 100 stars if possible."

Love Note

book a tour

INQUIRE FOR DETAILS

To receive detailed information about our packages and explore the possibilities for your special day, please reach out to us directly.

looking for more?

- Alice M

"We cannot recommend the Old Lystra Inn enough; they are the perfect venue run by the best people! After a series of COVID-related venue disasters, we were desperate to find a venue only a few months before our wedding. Beth and Tony at the Old Lystra Inn were there for us. They were helpful, kind, and supportive through the entire process. The house and grounds could not be more beautiful and getting to spend time there with our wedding party the day of was so relaxing and fun. Our guests loved the space and Tony and Beth were the most accommodating, generous hosts we could have asked for. We can never thank them enough. Everyone should get married at the Old Lystra Inn!
"

"An Absolute Dream Come True"

- Bryce

"Thanks to the Old Lystra Inn our wedding day was perfect. The venue is so beautiful and perfect. Beth and Tony take meticulous care of the property, are perfect hosts, and make everything seamless. We could not have imagined a more perfect setting for our wedding. I would give them 100 stars if possible."

"We could not have imagined a more perfect setting for our wedding"

- Nicole

"Our wedding experience was very unique due to the Covid-19 pandemic. In 2020, my husband and I got married at Old Lystra in an intimate wedding ceremony. A year later, we would finally have our wedding celebration with all our friends and family together. During those two years, we were able to get to know Beth & Tony, and quickly discovered what genuine and caring people they were. From being so flexible with rescheduling multiple times because of gathering restrictions, giving us fair pricing when booking, being available to help answer any questions or concerns we had, to making our special day(s) personalized right down to the very last detail. Throughout our entire experience with Beth & Tony, they treated us like family and helped in any possible way they could. For instance, on our wedding day, we wanted to live stream our event so our friends and family members could watch from home. Beth & Tony went as far as helping setup the computer and figuring out all the connections and wiring in order to make it work. They even stood by during the ceremony to monitor the live stream and ensure it continued working. NO OTHER venue would have gone above and beyond the way Beth & Tony did! My husband and I are forever grateful for our experience with them and for their gracious hospitality. For any future couples searching for the perfect place to get married, Old Lystra will not disappoint! We promise you'll get more love, happiness, and priceless memories than you could ever bargain for! "

Love Notes

Parking is on the front lawn or left side lot, just a short uphill walk to the venue. Consider dropping riders off at the front gate at the top of the driveway should they prefer not to make the small trek.

How will I know where to park?  

There will be parking attendants in yellow vests and signs to direct you one hour prior to the event. Please follow directions carefully to ensure that all can get in and out efficiently and safely.  

Will there be heaters or fans in the tent?

Will the event be held outside?

What if I am handicapped or elderly?

Where will I park? / How will I know where to park?  

Can I bring in outside alcohol and serve myself?

Can I leave a car overnight?

Do Ubers and Lyfts come to Old Lystra?

Where are bathrooms located?

GUEST
QUESTIONS?

Where can I smoke?

I’m a nursing mom. Are there arrangements for me?

Yes! Old Lystra Inn is an outdoor/tented venue with expansive lawns and Chapel Hill gravel pathways. Though in some cases you may be directed through the house to sign in at a welcome table, the remainder of the event will be held outdoors. We encourage you to dress appropriately for the weather, including footwear, so that you can enjoy your time at our beautiful venue! Old Lystra Inn is a private residence and guests are not permitted back in the home once the ceremony has begun. Should you desire a tour, please find owner Tony Pendola. He would love to show you the house and chat with you about its rich history.

GUEST
QUESTIONS?

Will there be heaters or fans in the tent?

Will the event be held outside?

What if I am handicapped or elderly?

Where will I park? / How will I know where to park?  

Can I leave a car overnight?

Do Ubers and Lyfts come to Old Lystra?

Where are bathrooms located?

Can I bring in outside alcohol and serve myself?

Where can I smoke?

I’m a nursing mom. Are there arrangements for me?

Climate-controlled, flushing guest bathrooms are located on the back lawn behind the Paul Green writing cabin. No restrooms are accessible in the house. Outdoor restrooms are at grade via the path on the left should you have any mobility issue. Some umbrellas will be provided in the tent in case of rain.

GUEST
QUESTIONS?

Will there be heaters or fans in the tent?

Will the event be held outside?

What if I am handicapped or elderly?

Where will I park? / How will I know where to park?  

Can I bring in outside alcohol and serve myself?

Can I leave a car overnight?

Do Ubers and Lyfts come to Old Lystra?

Where are bathrooms located?

Where can I smoke?

I’m a nursing mom. Are there arrangements for me?

Safety is first! We strongly encourage ridesharing or carpooling if you plan to drink, but if you have too much and need to leave your vehicle, you may do so. All cars must be picked up the following day before 10am and Old Lystra is NOT responsible for a vehicle or its contents should you voluntarily choose to leave it

Will there be heaters or fans in the tent?

Will the event be held outside?

What if I am handicapped or elderly?

Where will I park? / How will I know where to park?  

Can I bring in outside alcohol and serve myself?

Can I leave a car overnight?

Do Ubers and Lyfts come to Old Lystra?

Where are bathrooms located?

GUEST
QUESTIONS?

Where can I smoke?

I’m a nursing mom. Are there arrangements for me?

Absolutely not! All alcohol MUST be served by an insured, professional bartender anywhere on Old Lystra Inn’s property, including in your personal vehicle. Should you be caught with self-serve alcohol or illicit drugs, you will be asked to leave immediately and your host will lose their deposit. Please be very respectful of this rule!

Will there be heaters or fans in the tent?

Will the event be held outside?

What if I am handicapped or elderly?

Where will I park? / How will I know where to park?  

Can I bring in outside alcohol and serve myself?

Can I leave a car overnight?

Do Ubers and Lyfts come to Old Lystra?

Where are bathrooms located?

GUEST
QUESTIONS?

Where can I smoke?

I’m a nursing mom. Are there arrangements for me?

There are two designated spots for smokers. On the gravel near the garage and at the fire pit near the writing cabin. Absolutely no smoking is allowed anywhere else on the property, including vaping or e-cigs. Please use provided “butt” receptacles or the couple could be charged for clean up.  

Will there be heaters or fans in the tent?

Will the event be held outside?

What if I am handicapped or elderly?

Where will I park? / How will I know where to park?  

Can I bring in outside alcohol and serve myself?

Can I leave a car overnight?

Do Ubers and Lyfts come to Old Lystra?

Where are bathrooms located?

GUEST
QUESTIONS?

Where can I smoke?

I’m a nursing mom. Are there arrangements for me?

your dream wedding can happen

book a tour —

Save your Date

Planning a wedding can be an overwhelming experience, but it doesn't have to be. At our venue, we believe that your special day should be stress-free and enjoyable. We want you to focus on what really matters - celebrating your love with your family and friends. With our stress-free approach to weddings, you can relax and enjoy every moment of your special day, knowing that we have everything under control. Let us help you make your dream wedding a reality without the stress.

Stress-Free Wedding Day

at Old lystra, we belive in a